Relationships: a matter of attitude

I'll start saying that relationships are like the flowers, if you don't take care of them, they die. To share your things with another person is really difficult. In other words I may refer to it as a challenge. Not everyone has the skills for coexisting with others. I should also say why I consider that the success or failure of relations, are due to the attitude of each one.

I have seen many couples having troubles for insignificant things.
One of couple begin talking, stuff like this: "he doesn't put his clothes in the closet, he always throw it away  or she is always angry, fighting with me, she wants everything to be like she wants no matter what and so on".

I should also indicate that most of the time, in the case of a couple, if there is love between both, probably there will be a light at the end of the night. It's difficult to understand that everybody is different from each other, I mean, had a different childhood, family, knowledge, friends, habits. That's why I consider that if you looked for a person to be with you forever or sometime, at least, both must have something in common.

Sometimes even friends around you have similar likes, activities, etc. And talking about friends, relationships between friends are kind of special too. And like in the couple, one of the participants of the relation has to give up in certain aspects.

For example, when I have a discussion with someone,  first before talking, I think inside me, is he seeing the things by my side?, should I take his place and think like him or her to understand?. What I mean with these is that our attitude toward problems should affect our relations with others. That's why we have to evaluate what the other say from their point of view and maybe like that we could understand better their position.

Finally, I consider that the position you take, when things happen to you, make the difference. So the best way to have good relationships is taking a positive side, seeing from the other person point of view and taking into account that everybody has different personalities that make each one unique, your way of behavior with others could be the tool for having  good relationship.