Every couple have its own dynamic of interaction. But there is something that each one must have in order to live a constructive relationship, in my opinion, "confidence". Confidence it's a tough word because it implies many things. Frankly, it's difficult to trust in some cases but if your self esteem is good; you should be calm. Every one know what it's important to them in life, that's the clue. If your partner really loves you, he/she will give priority to you.
The reality is that there are some aspects of a relationship that make your trust go down for a while. In that moment, you have to be very secure about the person who is next to you. Because there will always be temptations. Life is a bunch of occasions that happens every day. You decide if every day could be the happier or the sadder one with your partner.
Confidence is cultivated with details. Let that person know that he or she is the most special one in your life. There are a lot of ways to do it. The first thing you have to do is "Know what his or her likes are", pay attention to what is said and the way of behavior. If he or she likes to eat at home, try to make a delicious dinner once in while, to watch a movie at home, dance a beautiful song and so on, depending on the likes.
Girls, if he is going out with his friends, let him go with out reproaching him. Keep calm and don't look at his phone when somebody it's calling him. Don't text him 10 times during his activities with his friend because those actions say him that you are not secured of him and even worst you don't feel secured of you. It's really hard sometimes because usually, women are jealous. But at the end, if he sees and feels you secured, he will appraise you more. Obviously, I'm not saying that you don't have to be alert, I'm just saying that don't show him that you are so so jealous that you can 't handle the situation.
Boys, you have to be a little more communicative, if you do what you have to do in order to get your partner trust in you, each one it's going to be happy in the relationship. You because she will leave you, your space and she because of her confidence in you. Also, take into account that women are moved by details, be kind, charming, respect her, make her feel that she has the man of her life next to her. To be honest, those sort of details reaffirm the confidence on a man
So people, I know there are so many thing each one may do to have confidence, I just said some above. But every day, there are situations that test the couple, the world is always changing with obstacles in your path, you both can work together to overcome those obstructions and I consider that the most important feeling you may have to live a happy relationship these days is, confidence.
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