When you are in a relationship, there are a lot of challenges that you must overcome, to have succeed. Daily, there are more and more new things that you didn't know before of your partner. And at the end, that's life, a bunch of situation that teach you every day new aspects. So, What may we do in order to have a plentiful relationship??... well people, I'm not an expert but in my experience, here are some of the points I consider, may change or improve your day to day activities with your partner.
Let's start saying that what I show here, are just few of the things that can make a difference.
Love: Love is one of the most wonderful feeling you can have. When you have it in your life, everything turns different and more beautiful. Make what you have to, with love. Living with a person is something easy, if there is love. And i'm not saying that you'll love to wash the dishes, no!! that's not what I mean, life is not always a fairy tale. What I want to say is that, if you have to wash the dishes and he o she kisses you or give hugs or help you, while you are doing it, you'll feel happier and loved. Little details may change your environment.
Communication: To communicate the aspects or things you don't like quickly and clearly is part of the happy relation. Remember that every one is different and the person next to you is not going to know what do you want, if you don't tell him/her. Also, remark the positive things. For example: "You look pretty with that t-shirt or I love the way your hair looks like and so on ". Don't forget, what catches your attention since the first moment about him/her.
Sex: This mark the difference between friends and a couple. The sex is part of the important points. Try to do what he o she likes. Speak about how and when do you like the most. Talking about this, open the relation to trust and learning how to enjoy it together.
Diversity: Every activity needs a touch of diversity. Why? ... well, when you are with a person for many years, sometimes people let their life to become monotonous. And, honestly speaking, that's one of the things you both have to avoid. Try, new ways of doing things, such as: eating on the floor one day, dancing the beautiful song at home, plan doing an special dinner for no reason... there are plenty of activities, you may try.
Respect: There must exist respect in a relationship because that 's part of your consideration to her or him. Sometimes, both disagree with certain opinions, wishes, likes and so on. But if you respect you partner, you'll find a way in which, each one is going to be happy even though not agree in some aspects.
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