Many people think that when there is a conflict between the couple, that relationship is not going to last so much. But I consider that it depends on many factors. Here are some of the points, I think is good to know before saying that every thing is not going to work.
Evaluating how the the couple met is important. Why?.. because is not the same thing, to meet someone at a disco than meeting at a restaurant, class or a park. (I have nothing against discos but that's not the best place to get to know a person). So, there are aspects of him or her that you know since the first time you met. Don't pretend that after sometime together, the things you knew before of that person are going to change. Believe me, that's not going to happen. Or at least, is not a common thing.
Taking into account the activities in common and the once that are not so familiar to both. Most of the times, conflicts come because of a difference that is not handle well. For example: "She likes to dance, he doesn't," .., "He likes to eat food from her but she doesn't like or know how to cook", "She likes to run , he doesn't"... and so on. Those are things that if you are in a relationship with someone, since the beginning of it, you're going to deal with. So if you know, what is your case and you love that person, you have to find a way where both agree before getting together for the rest of you life.
Communicating things, the communication in a couple is one of the priorities in order to have a productive relation. Every one has good moments and bad ones, your strength as a couple will come up when you learn how to speak to each other. At the end, talking is part of the activities you have to do in a family, take advantage of it.
So people, conflicts are not a wall that you can not eliminate, they are just obstacles that appears in your path to teach you new experiences. As a couple, there will always be problems, depends on the couple to overcome situations and continue working together. Good relations, always find a light at the end of the road no matter how big the conflicts are.
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