Lately, some questions are always on the table. While gathering together with friends, there are moments when is not easy to handle a person who you consider annoying. Yesterday, I thought that the situations that occur to a person sometimes are inevitable but what the person can control is how to react to certain moments.
The point is, what is better? How to deal with difficult people without feeling awful about them. The reality is that not every body knows what is the right choice for sure but every body may decide which they want to do. So, I will describe a situation in order to show my thinking.
"There is this girl who is a person that is always smiling. Even without any reason at all. But is the kind of person that is a pain in the ass when she wants to make somebody angry. She defends her point of view in a way that everybody got her attention but she always make some comments about others that really pissed me off. Things like mentioning a TV show that is about a bad situation in a couple while a couple is having a simple situation."
Maybe her attitude is not so bad. But I personally want to express my opinion about that kind of people. Get out of others people life, is none of you business. Put attention to your life and leave others alone.
But here the point is that even though you don't know how to put a person apart because is part of the family of a friend. you may decide that what ever is getting you angry. Is not going to ruin your day, so just focus on the great things you have in life, your beautiful family or what ever you like. Look around you, there are a lot of people that wish to have what you have. So don't let people without importance take part of your moments. Get rid of them as soon as you leave the space where they are. Life is awesome, live yours.
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